I can see your point on children in foster care and adopted at an older age. My son though was adopted when he was only 2 weeks old, and now he is 5 and has attachment issues. He suffers from ADHD, Oppositional defiant disorder (ODD) and now I find out that he has attachment disorder. This is very frustating as we cannot do anyhting for fear of a major meltdown. There are few resources out there to help us and it get too much sometimes.